The standards that society has placed among so many people today have become all but barely bearable for many people.  This is especially true for those people that are overweight, or considered to be bid women. BBW have found that they are not only labeled, but that trying to find a date, at times, may seem close to impossible.

Thanks to the images that Hollywood tosses out every day via television advertisements, radio, programs and movies, many girls are functioned to believe that they must be rail thin, blonde and big breasted for anyone to love them.  Although some people may think this way, that concept does not hold true for the entire nation.  Everyone has their own thoughts and beliefs, which they are certainly entitled to. It is trying to make people more tolerable of BBW that so many are striving for.  Trying to make a big woman into something that she is not, especially into a rail thin woman may not only seem impossible, but is harsh and unfair to the big woman herself.  Adding the pressures of being “perfect” by society’s standards, many BBW may find that they have such a hard time finding the right mate to suit their wants and desires.

There are, on the other hand, many BBW that truly embrace who they are. They go against the grain on the thoughts of society, and are boisterous and love themselves for what they are worth.  BBW that have higher self esteem, like many other women, are typically sought after first by those individuals that are attracted to such traits.  BBW who love themselves, for who they are, enjoy life, and laugh in the face of stereotypes are often the BBW that can truly know who they are and be comfortable in their own skin. There are many celebrities that are BBW, which makes it all the more easier for the general public to be much more accepting of BBW and the people that they are attracted to for dating.

On the flip side, there are many people that are highly turned on by BBW and dating.  These people are in the mood for romance, and find BBW very arousing and sexually appealing.  Those that may be attracted to the BBW and dating may be big themselves, or perhaps even smaller than the BBW.  Such said individuals are often also going against the grain on how today’s culture tries to conform everyone to the “ right” image and what society believes to be beautiful.

Young or old, BBW are loved everywhere.  Knowing that BBW can love and be loved in return gives many BBW and those that seek them great hope for dating.  BBW are humans too, and need love in their lives in order to feel whole, which can also be said of those that are seeking the companionship of a big woman.

Dating is possible for everyone, and can be made true, especially for BBW.